Birthday Gifts for My 4-Year Old Daughter…An Anecdote of Sweet Memory.
Parents are the best source to create memories for their children.
How do you feel if a 4 –year old girl says she wants to get married?
I was walking with my 4-year old daughter. We were going to buy milk from supermarket. I asked her what gift she wants on her birthday. Her birthday falls on 6th may. She was happy after listening this question. She said that she wants 2 gifts on her birthday. A pink- colour tab. She wants everything pink. “What about second gift ’’ I said. She told me she wants to get married. ‘’Can you repeat again’’ I said. She repeated the same statement cheerfully.
I started laughing. She became sad. She grumbled as I was making fun of her. I had to spill the beans about her marriage stuff. Thus, I asked why she wants to get married. She told that few days back we were watching a movie together. I said in negative that we never watched any movie. She urged me to remember. I understood. We were watching my wedding video together. Then she shared whole marriage function starting forms guests to our marriage hall decoration with flowers and so on . She told that her mother was wearing gorgeous bridal outfit with different types of makeup and jewelry. I understood that she was attracted by her mother’s bridal look. I comprehended her innocent demand that she wants to dress, wear makeup and jewelry like a bride.
A child should be taken care as a flower, which needs very precise amount of air, sunlight and water to bloom with its full beauty and fragnance. Rough wind or excessive sunlight cause the flower not to bloom with its essence .A child should be treated like a flower with lots love and care to go next level of his or her life with full of happy and sweet memory of childhood. This is the purpose to curate this article about my daughter. Hope this article will make her laugh one day and it will be a sweet memory of her childhood.
Childhood is the best of all the seasons of life, and the longer it lasts with happy memories, stronger the emotional stability in adulthood. (Venugopal Acharya)
Let me talk about her 2 gifts. I am really sceptic about the first gift that is tab. I need to see the pros and cons before giving it to her. But I will give it to her. I feel excited about her second gift : she wants to get married means she is curious to wear bridal attire with full of cosmetics and jewelry. We are going to pierce her ears shortly, in that occasion she will dress like a bride, we will capture this moment in a camera. She will also laugh on herself one day after seeing her own image as child bride, which she demanded from her father as a birthday gift.
Thank you so much for reading .